The Law of Attraction and Love
“Every person, who has been moved by genuine love, knows that it leaves enduring traces upon the human heart” – Napoleon Hill
When conscious and focused, love can be a joyful and fulfilling experience. Did you know that you can use the law of attraction to bring more joy and love to your current relationship?
When thinking about the state of your current relationship, good or bad, it is important to realize that your thoughts have been responsible for every outcome. Within every relationship there are great times and there are tough times. The important thing to remember is that whenever there was an overwhelming feeling of one type of feeling or the other it was created by your thoughts! Our thoughts influence our feelings, that is our thought barometer, but our focused and repeated thoughts result in our actions.
To make any relationship work the first thing you need to do is understand yourself first. What makes you happy? What do you enjoy doing? What do you value? Here is the revealing question you need to ask, do you actually do the things that make you happy for yourself? Do you treat yourself the way you want to be treated by others?
If the answer to any of these questions is no, or sometimes, then you need to start treating yourself as with the respect and love you feel you deserve right away! If you do not do the things that bring you joy, if you do not make yourself happy it is impossible to expect or attract others to do the same. The negative feelings (again a thought barometer) associated with not loving yourself; only draw more of the same events and people into your life.
Do you enjoy your own company? If you do not like being you then this is again another negative message sent out to the universe.
One common thing that a lot of people do while in a relationship is putting their self-last. Constantly putting others before you only attracts more of the same – others putting you last! Your entire focus is not on doing what you want to do or what makes you happy, the universe sends you more of this in the form of your partner not doing what makes you feel valued. Your thoughts again return the exact same frequency!
A great law of attraction love technique to employ is to ask yourself, what do you like about you? Write down all your positive qualities and traits. Read this list daily and concentrate on one good thing on it. It doesn’t have to be an extended period, just a couple of minutes. This will put you on the feel good frequency.
Another technique is to make a list of the things you love to do, the things that make you happy. Try and do at least one thing on that list every day. The more you are able to do the better you will feel! Good thoughts equal good feelings, exactly the thoughts and feelings we want returned to us.
This is brings us to another very important question. What do you like about your partner?
Again use the power of journaling, make a list of all the things you love about them. Write down as many as you can and read this list daily. You should again concentrate on something that they do that makes you feel good every day. This will again raise your frequency and return more of those same feelings and thoughts to you. It is important to remember that every positive thought is a multiplier!
Gratitude is also one of the most important tools to manifest the relationship you truly desire. Be truly thankful for the things on your “What I like about me “list and “what I like about my partner” list. Being grateful is a great way to focus on the foundation of your relationship. Add gratitude to your law of attraction love process and you are truly becoming a focused and deliberate creator of your own world!
If you are in a relationship now and having a hard time, think back to what brought you together in the beginning, journal those thoughts and use them to generate more positive returns. Always keep in mind that the law of attraction returns your thoughts to you at exactly the same return frequency as they are broadcast on.
Do not concentrate on anything negative happening at the moment in your relationship. It is important to remind yourself not to complain about your partner. If you discuss these negative qualities with others you are only focusing your thoughts on the negative. Negative only lead to more negative thoughts. This will only result in them doing more things for you to complain about. This can be a hard step for some, but if you use all of the techniques that we have discussed here, positive results are the only thing that is possible!
- Understand yourself first
- Do not put yourself last
- Show gratitude for the things you like about yourself and your partner
- Do not concentrate on anything negative in your relationship
Central Action Step:
- Make a list of all the things you like about you
- Make a list of all the things you value about your partner
- Do at least one thing every day that makes you happy, be kind to yourself!